We’ve all heard, “lead by example” and leaders do just that. The question is what kind of example is being shared. When leaders set the wrong example where does it lead?
When Leaders Set the Wrong Example
What Happens When Leaders don’t Follow the Rules?
The first thing that happens is others think they don’t have to follow the rules either. If the boss doesn’t follow the procedure, use the form, or work with the software, then it becomes the rule for other members of the team, especially if they’re tenured and feel entitled. But there’s a bigger problem looming than specific policies, systems, and procedures not being followed. The danger is that all rules will be questioned. If an exception can be made for one procedure why can’t it be made for another? The exception becomes the rule.
What Happens When Leaders Lie?
There may be nothing more important to building a team than establishing trust and nothing so easy to destroy. If a leader omits part of the truth, fails to fulfill a promise, or doesn’t carry through with an initiative, are those lies? Whenever a leader misleads a customer, vendor, or employee, every team member exposed to this behavior will be more inclined to copy the behavior when it fits their purposes. They’ll also lose some level of commitment and belief in the organization.
What Happens When Leaders are Subversive?
I once worked with a department manager who was a talented, hard working team leader. He’d jump in and help his team, work overtime and do whatever it took to get the job done. He never asked his direct reports to do anything he wouldn’t do. However, he fostered a negative environment with high turnover because he complained to the wrong people. For example, if upper management asked his team to work over he wouldn’t say a word to management but he’d tell his team those SOB’s are making us work! He lost a lot of employees.
Do as I say not as I do
I once worked directly with the owner of a growing mid-size company. In the ten years I was with the organization it grew from a net volume of six million per year to more than 20 million. In the beginning, the owner set a great example, working as hard as anyone; going on sales calls, inspecting work, training, and conducting meetings. But as time went on he spent less and less time in the day-to-day operations. He began leaving every day by five and spent two or three weekends a month at a beach home. The business continued to thrive, and I was happy for him, but he expected the rest of us to work 60-70 hours per week including every weekend. I and others left the organization that we had helped build and believed in.
Leaders are People
Leaders are going to make mistakes, they’re human, but there’s a difference between an error in judgement, and a management style. Every leader leads by example, unfortunately some of the examples aren’t the best. Are you in a leadership role? What example do you set?
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